November 2012 Newsletter – Bring All Of Your Family Together

Dad creates how it is going to be in his life. With his decisions and choices he is the one that creates how his life goes.

The same holds true for how family and extended family dynamics are created. He needs to sit down and work out how to do that with his partner. Dad has to take a look at how his partner does THEIR life. And, alot of that depends on the things they were exposed to in THEIR life.

A family's intention could be based on the "Working Hard" model – my family will get a good education, my kids will have a great career, they will find someone special, have children and grand children., everyone will be happy and love one another. Another family's intention could be to love one another unconditionally, practice yoga daily, and eat healthy food.

Each generation has different needs and wants according to family history.

If your parents did not have much money and your generation will create what they feel is most important. And that is most often determined by what they feel they missed out on, what they will have when they become adults and are in control of getting what they want and don't want.

That could look like having more money to give their children because they did not have money growing up. If your family had lots of love and lived comfortably, most likely this will continue.

Now a new dynamic has to be considered – extended family!! Extended family includes fathers and mothers- in-law, brothers and sisters-in-law, step mothers and fathers, step sisters and brothers, half sisters and brothers … etc, etc, etc …

People make decisions about other people instantly – whether to like them or not, whether to like them or not, whether to connect with them or not – based on how that happened in their family. And that occurs every time partners meet each other's families for the first time. You fell in love with one another and you want your family to fall in love with too!

How you consciously choose to treat people sets the standard for how others will treat you – regardless of first impressions. When you choose to love and respect people the way you love and respect your own Mum and Dad, brother and sister, that energy flows out to everyone and it will flow back to you. When that energy stops somewhere, everything becomes unbalanced. This is what I call the "energy Love Circle". I discuss this on page 23 of "Empowering You & Your Family". When you treat people like you would your own family members, there is no separation at all.

Close your eyes and see what would it look like if all were treated the same as Mum and Dad, brother and sister in loving, positive relationships. "Empowering You and Your Family" shows you how you can bring the whole family together.

Research has documented that stressed Mums have a greater likelihood of giving birth to a stressed baby. It is also documented that stress gets focused into the blood and affects how strong baby's bones and muscles grow. The flight or fight instinct that is hardwired into our DNA is affected by stress as well.

Calm, happy environments help the blood and nutrient supply work more towards supporting overall strength, health and  brain function in babies. There is a documented difference between babies being born in countries that are at war and countries that are at peace. This makes alot of sense because the unborn baby can hear and feel what the Mum is feeling. The quality of food that Mum eats directly impacts the quality of nutrition the unborn baby is getting. The quality of a Mum's pregnancy has a HUGE impact on how the baby will join the world it is being born into.

Helen Recommends

Tired Of Hearing Family Members Complaining About Their Back?

Last week, after three years of coming for massage, we finally got to meet our client's brother!

I honestly think that our client was tired of hearing his brother complain about his back. That day he had a remedial massage scheduled with Lara. An hour later, he was on the phone with his brother telling him "I feel so much better. I can move and I feel taller. I can't believe that the pain has almost gone."

People believe nothing can help them and that they have to put up with their problem because there is no solution. TV and Marketing have done an excellent job of selling "all massage is the same" to the general public. This is so far from the truth that it would be laughable if so many people weren't actually doing more harm than good to themselves by believing this stuff. Hard rubber rollers are not a substitute for remedial massage. There is no such thing as a magic pill for chronic pain relief.

The ONLY thing that even comes close to being a "Magic Pill" for people who have experienced years of pain and suffering is a REGULAR program of remedial massage. Think about this for a second, if we were to believe everything we read, see and hear in the media, eating McDonald's three times a day would keep us healthy and happy!

As you look back over time, I am sure that you can "see" things that were there for the person who is complaining … things that now add up to … hmmmmmm... that's when it all started!

If you know someone who is suffering like this … please SAY SOMETHING to them. You will not catch anything from being a great friend! 🙂

Movember

During November each year, Movember is responsible for the sprouting of moustaches on thousands of men’s faces in Australia and around the world. The aim of which is to raise vital funds and awareness for men’s health, specifically prostate cancer and male mental health.

Registering at www.movember.com, guys then start Movember 1st with a clean-shaven face and then for the rest of the month, these selfless and generous men known as Mo Bros, groom, trim and wax their way into the annals of fine moustachery. Supported by the women in their lives, Mo Sistas, Movember Mo Bros raise funds by seeking out sponsorship for their Mo growing efforts.

Mo Bros effectively become walking, talking billboards for the 30 days of November and through their actions and words raise awareness by prompting private and public conversation around the often ignored issue of men’s health.

At the end of the month, Mo Bros and their female supporters (known as Mo Sistas) celebrate their gallantry and valor by either throwing their own Movember party or attending one of the infamous Gala Partés held around the world by Movember, for Movember.

Lara and Helen proudly support Movember! If you would like more information about Movember, or to make a donation, please visit http://au.movember.com/

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